Sexual Addiction Therapists in Calgary, AB

What is sexual addiction and is it a recognized condition?

Sexual addiction — also called compulsive sexual behaviour or hypersexual disorder — refers to an ongoing pattern of sexual thoughts, urges, or behaviours that feel out of control and cause significant distress or harm to relationships, work, finances, or wellbeing. While not currently listed in the DSM-5, it is recognized in the ICD-11 as "compulsive sexual behaviour disorder." Debate exists in the clinical field about terminology, but the experience of those affected is real, and effective treatment is available.

What kinds of behaviours does sexual addiction counselling address?

Counselling addresses a range of compulsive sexual behaviours including compulsive pornography use, excessive masturbation, repeated affairs or serial infidelity, compulsive use of sex work, risky sexual encounters, and online sexual behaviour that has become time-consuming and unmanageable. The focus is not on the specific behaviour in isolation but on the compulsive cycle driving it, the underlying emotional needs it serves, and its impact on the person's life and relationships.

What therapy approaches are used for sexual addiction?

CBT is commonly used to identify triggers, interrupt compulsive cycles, and build healthier coping strategies. Trauma-informed therapy is often central, as compulsive sexual behaviour frequently develops as a coping mechanism for unresolved trauma, shame, or attachment wounds. ACT, motivational interviewing, and twelve-step facilitation (Sex Addicts Anonymous, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous) are also used. Partners who have been betrayed by the behaviour may be included in therapy once the individual has established some stability.

How is sexual addiction different from a healthy interest in sex?

A healthy interest in sex becomes a concern when the behaviour feels compulsive rather than chosen, when it continues despite negative consequences, when it is used to cope with negative emotions rather than to connect and enjoy, and when it causes significant distress or harm. The key markers are loss of control, continued behaviour despite consequences, and the behaviour serving an emotional regulation function. A therapist can help you assess whether what you are experiencing falls into this category.

How long does treatment for sexual addiction take?

Treatment for compulsive sexual behaviour is typically longer-term, particularly when trauma underlies the behaviour. Initial stabilization — interrupting the compulsive cycle and building alternative coping — may occur over the first 3–6 months; deeper trauma work and relapse prevention extend the process further. Many people engage in both individual therapy and peer support groups concurrently. Partners, if involved, often benefit from their own separate therapeutic support.