Self Esteem Therapists in Surrey, BC

Karine Keokongchack

Karine Keokongchack

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Virtual

A compassionate, authentic counsellor who supports people to feel more grounded, confident, and connected to what matters most. Feel deeply heard, gain self-awareness and learn new skills to help you thrive in your relationships & endeavours. Sessions incoporate a variety of therapeutic modalities. Karine is respectful, supportive and allow space for growth.

Lisa Demmer

Lisa Demmer

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), HBA, ADHD-CP

Virtual

Accepting NEW Clients – Is it hard to find motivation or let go of anxious thoughts? Do you feel stuck in low mood, the past, or like you’re going through the motions but nothing changes? Have you lost sight of yourself, or feel held back by experiences that continue to echo into the present? Maybe you’re wanting support with emotions, communication, relationships, identity, or finding meaning in…

Mackenzie Fournier

Mackenzie Fournier

Registered Psychotherapist

Virtual

Hi, I’m Mackenzie! I’m a Psychotherapist who loves keeping therapy real, down-to-earth, and practical. I help people untangle patterns around anxiety, food, and self-trust using tools grounded in science. In sessions, I bring my authentic self—you can expect a mix of support, guidance, and maybe a little humour when it feels right—so we can tackle challenges together without the extra pressure.

Kim Coscolluela

Kim Coscolluela

Canadian Certified Counsellor, Registered Psychiatric Nurse

Virtual

I offer a gentle, grounded space for people to feel heard, supported, and reconnected to themselves. As a Registered Psychiatric Nurse and counsellor, I blend evidence-based therapy with deep compassion and real-world understanding. Healing isn’t linear, but you don’t have to go through it alone.

Chantelle Vaz

Chantelle Vaz

Registered Psychotherapist

Virtual

I offer a warm and collaborative space where you can explore your experiences with curiosity and care. My approach is rooted in empathy and authenticity, supporting you in understanding your story, building self-compassion, and creating meaningful change. I draw from narrative, attachment, and emotion-focused therapies to meet your unique needs.

Cayla Townes

Cayla Townes

Registered Psychotherapist

Virtual Waitlist for new clients

After years of working in a variety of settings with clients struggling with different life challenges, there's not much I haven't seen. My goal is for clients to walk away from therapy with me feeling validated, supported, and confident using the skills and knowledge they've learned in sessions. I look forward to learning more about how I can support you. Schedule a free consult today!

Carole Boivin M.Ed, RCC, CCC

Carole Boivin M.Ed, RCC, CCC

Registered Clinical Counsellor & Certified EMDR Therapist

Virtual

Hi, as an experienced Registered Counsellor (24 years) and as a Certified EMDR Therapist, I am passionate about helping others find resolution, healing & happiness in their lives. Working in both English and French, I offer individual counselling & expertise in EMDR Therapy to provide support to overcome anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship and self-esteem issues, & more. My approach has bee…

Erin Ibrahim

Erin Ibrahim

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA

Virtual

Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, relationship stress, self-esteem struggles, or just feeling stuck, we can work through it together. Pulling from a variety of frameworks to instead suit your unique needs instead of making it feel one-size-fits-all, I have interest in anxiety, depression, relationships, attachment, neurodiversity, and self-esteem. I look forward to connecting!

Maya Awad

Maya Awad

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), ADHD-SP, HBSc (she, her)

Virtual

Accepting NEW clients - Are you feeling overwhelmed or like you’re carrying a lot on your own? Feel like you're doing everything you’re “supposed to do,” but something still doesn’t feel right? Have a desire to better understand your thoughts, emotions, or patterns, work on building confidence or self-esteem, or find support for your relationship?

Mackenzie Howard

Mackenzie Howard

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

Virtual

I provide psychotherapy to adults across Ontario who are navigating concerns such as anxiety, stress, burnout, perfectionism, relationship concerns, self-esteem, and life transitions. My approach is collaborative and individualized, with sessions focused on understanding your experiences and working toward goals that are meaningful to you.

Lindsay Renaud

Lindsay Renaud

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, ADHD-CP, BEd, HBA

Virtual

Does stress, relationship troubles, anxiety, ADHD, or trauma have you feeling stuck? Do you wish you “felt better?” or wish to feel more like yourself again? Do you want to better understand how your past effects your present? Are you wanting to reconnect in your relationship? Are you a parent with a child needing a hand? I'll support you in reaching therapy goals by helping create more...

Alexa Gelles

Alexa Gelles

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Virtual

Alexa Gelles is a Registered Clinical Counsellor and the founder of Aligned Relationship Counselling. For over a decade, she has helped individuals and couples navigate relationship challenges, improve communication, and create stronger, healthier connections. Alexa is known for her warm, practical approach and her ability to help clients create meaningful, lasting change.

Harleen Gill

Harleen Gill

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

Virtual

As a woman of colour raised by two immigrants, I have extensive lived experience with the struggles that often come along with these identities and circumstances. I strive to create a safe space using a culturally-informed lens in which you feel comfortable enough to put down some of the weight of life that you have been carrying alone. Book a free consultation now and start your healing journey.

Melissa Andrews

Melissa Andrews

Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC)

Virtual

Navigating life's daily challenges and changes can sometimes feel overwhelming, leaving you unsure of the right path forward. Seeking support can feel daunting, but having someone to listen, validate your feelings, and provide a safe space, can make a difference in how you experience the journey. Collaboration is at the heart of my work. I offer compassionate support grounded in empathy, kindnes…

Vijay S Mann

Vijay S Mann

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Virtual In-Person

Our journeys are not a straight line. Bends and breaks can challenge us, but therapy can help you navigate these journeys in a healthy way. You deserve to be healthy in all aspects of life. You deserve the best life has to offer so you can live to your fullest potential. No matter what your story or background is, holistic, culturally-appropriate, and growth-oriented counselling can help.

Leah Dhahan

Leah Dhahan

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Virtual

Welcome! Are you struggling to set boundaries and speak your truth in relationships? Are you currently experiencing feelings of anxiety, anger, or powerlessness in your life or relationships? Do you find yourself struggling with painful feelings and emotions? Would you like support for childhood trauma? I am here to help…My specialties include support for the following areas: anxiety, depressio...

Jonathan Wieser

Jonathan Wieser

Registered Clinical Counsellor, Registered Couple and Family Therapist

Virtual In-Person

Jonathan is the senior therapist at Sojourn with over 15 years' experience and has provided over 12,000 hours of therapy. He hold a Masters of Arts degree, is a Registered Clinical Counsellor, Approved Clinical Supervisor, and Registered Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in counselling and neurofeedback for individuals, couples and families. Jon works in collaboration with his clients...

Daniela Arrieta Galvan

Daniela Arrieta Galvan

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

Virtual

I am passionate about helping people heal from soul wounds created by historical, collective and relational trauma. Many of my clients struggle to find a sense of self & identity, disconnection to themselves & others and childhood & intergenerational trauma. I help them make meaning of their experiences, process emotions, heal wounds and find their way back to themselves.

Michael Peddle

Michael Peddle

Registered Psychotherapist (RP), Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC), Certified IFS Therapist

Virtual

Since 2011, I’ve supported clients through trauma and attachment wounds using IFS as my core approach. I integrate EMDR, SFBT, and evidence-based techniques to help people heal burdens, strengthen inner safety, and reconnect with their most grounded, empowered selves.

Kirin Dupuis-Friele

Kirin Dupuis-Friele

Registered Professional Counsellor - Provisional

Virtual

Life brings us many challenges, some hard and some traumatic. In each of these is an opportunity to discover who we are beyond the challenge through growth and self discovery. In my practice I walk along side you and support you in processing and turning life's challenges into character growth and hope in a new direction.

How do therapists in Surrey, BC compare?

Number of therapists listed

37

Average years in practice

7.7 Years

Currently accepting new clients

89 %

Therapists in Surrey, BC who prioritize treating:

100% Self Esteem
92% Anxiety
57% Relationship Issues
54% Depression
46% Trauma and PTSD
46% Emotional Dysregulation
35% Stress
30% ADHD

How therapists see their clients

5% In Person & Online
95% Online Only

Top therapy approaches used in Surrey, BC:

35% Trauma Focused
30% Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
30% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
30% Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
30% Person-Centered
27% Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
24% Attachment-based
24% Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Frequently Asked Questions About Self Esteem

What causes low self-esteem and can therapy help?

Low self-esteem commonly develops from early experiences such as criticism, neglect, bullying, or trauma, but it can also emerge from chronic stress, relationship difficulties, or mental health conditions like depression. Therapy can help significantly — a trained therapist works with you to identify where negative self-beliefs originated, challenge their accuracy, and build a more grounded, compassionate relationship with yourself.

What therapy approaches are most effective for low self-esteem?

CBT is one of the most evidence-based approaches for low self-esteem, targeting the negative core beliefs and self-critical thought patterns that maintain it. Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), Schema Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) are also widely used and particularly helpful when low self-esteem is deep-rooted or connected to early life experiences. Many therapists integrate these approaches based on your individual history.

Is low self-esteem a mental health diagnosis?

Low self-esteem is not a standalone diagnosis, but it is a significant contributing factor to — and symptom of — many mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, and personality disorders. You do not need a formal diagnosis to seek therapy for self-esteem concerns. Many people find that addressing self-esteem directly produces improvements across multiple areas of their mental health.

How long does therapy for self-esteem typically take?

The timeline varies depending on how deep-rooted your self-esteem issues are and whether they are connected to trauma or long-standing patterns. Some people notice meaningful shifts within 8–12 sessions of CBT-focused work; others with more complex histories benefit from longer-term therapy over 6–12 months or more. Your therapist will discuss realistic expectations early in treatment.

Can therapy for self-esteem help with other issues too?

Yes — improving self-esteem often has a positive ripple effect. People frequently report reduced anxiety, improved relationships, greater assertiveness, and better ability to handle setbacks as their self-esteem grows. Because low self-esteem underlies so many other challenges, addressing it directly can be one of the most impactful things you do for your overall wellbeing.